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She was born at home. There were 4 people. (Mama, Papa, Midwife and assistant).
For her 1 year birthday party, over 40 people came.
Thank you very much for all.
After 1 year:
Before 1 year.
It is from Thank You Guy (Mr. Seikan Kobayashi)'s book.
Goethe
Goethe (Johann Wolfgang von Goethe 1749-1832) is popular in Japan. He is introduced in school text book.
Human's biggest sin
He said "Human's biggest sin is being glum mood (or cranky mood, bad temper)". It is not starting war or murder. Because most of other thing we think it is not good is only one time. But people don't think glum mood is not so good.
Constant & influence
So it does not end. It is contagious. It will cause stress to other people. Sooner or later it will come back to you. People did something not good were not good mood. It is very common. Some people use "justice". But if you are really good mood, you don't care so much.
Just stop it
We cannot change other person. But we can change ourselves. Only we can is just stop at our place.
How to being good mood
If it is sunny day, you've got present from wife, you've got bonus from work, you ate something good at lunch time, of cource you can be in good mood.
It is beginner level.
In advanced level, you can keep in good mood.
Keep smile. Use only good word (heavenly word). Wear only bright color cloth.
Master level
Just keep saying only good word such as "Thankful" or "I'm so lucky & happy." without any reason. You can say 1000 times everyday.
If you say, your brain start looking for why you are so lucky & happy. When you find out reason, you'll become real happy & lucky person.
Then we can stop chain of sin.
Thank you,
Naoki
Everything is balanced and good for you.
Moon is going circle around earth. It is balanced.
If you complain about family, friend, neighbor or jobs, you are complainer. The environment is good for you.
If you appreciate around you, you are appreciator. The happy environment is good for you.
So we just create heaven or hell by ourself.
There's good news. Even you cannot really appreciate to someone or something, if you say appreciated word such "Thank you" it will work.
The reason is action is much more important than thinking.
Here's proof.
If you go to Japanese restaurant with thinking about Miso Ramen and actually order Tonkatsu (pork cutlet), which will come to your table?
Miso Ramen or Tonkatsu?
I guess almost 100% you will see Tonkatsu.
So let's start from ourself, so each person's environment will be better.
Some case it takes time, because something happening around you might be from something you did in past.
There's cause-and-effect link. But we can start good cause from now.
Thank you very much,
Naoki
Here's another story from Seikan-san (Thank
you guy).
There's point system in cosmos.
If you do something good, you get cosmic point or cash (money). Cash is good. We need for living. But it does not have interests.
Cosmic point has huge interest rate, such as 1000% / year.
You can use the point for something you wish.
But there's bankruptcy system. If you say hell word (complaint, curse, disaffection, etc. You know.), the point got clear all.
So let's use good word only.
Thank you,
Naoki
There're 2 big stream of buddhism from India.
They are Mahayana [greater vehicle] Buddhism and Hinayana [lesser vehicle] Buddhism.
Lesser vehicle was original and popular in Sri Lanka, Thailand, Myanmar, Laos and Cambodia.
The original idea is that if you become true happiness, that is good enough. So it means small vehicle is enough for heaven.
Greater vehicle one is popular in Tibet, China, Mongolia, Taiwan, Korea and Japan.
The idea is even you become true happiness it is not enough, you have to help everyone. So it requires large vehicle.
Both are good idea. But there's trap in greater vehicle one. Some & often times it call sense of mission, responsiblity and justice too much.
If you reach to enlightenment (satori), you don't have doubts. So you can help others.
But if you are not, I think it's better to help yourself first. Then we can avoid the trap, which is easy to complicate with our ego.
I think small vehicle would fit for our age.
Thank you,
Naoki
Seikan-san (a.k.a. Thank You Guy) is a travel writer in Japan. He has been very interested in paranormal.
But paranormal phenomenon does not happens so often. So he changed subject to normal phenomenon as our daily life.
He found over 2000 common terms. These are not scientifically proofed or explained.
His wrote over 20 books for happy & lucky. Once his books were planed for English translation, but it was canceled. Because he cannot proof read by himself in English.
His book is full of pun (equivoque). I think it is very difficult to translate with his humor.
I brought Jeanette (wife) to his 2 hour speech in LA. All speech is in Japanese.
Jeanette understand Hiragana character only in Japanese. She said she understand Japanese more than I think.
But she did not laugh at all his speech while almost all people were kept laughing. We were sitting front row.
I felt a little not good for both. So I explained when I got his autograph.
Seikan-san asked me "Please explain her later in English". Then I said "Yes".
One of his teaching and his philosophy is "If some one asked you to do what only you can do, do it". That is following to your fate in long run.
There's some exception cases. You don't need to do or better not to do.
You don't need to do, if you were asked only for head count.
You don't need to do, if you already have another schedule.
You don't need to do, if you are asked for borrow money. But if you really feel not good by not renting money, you can rent out money.
Well, Seikan-san has over 2000 raws of the universe. It takes some times to explain for you in English. Then you and I will forget some. Writing blog will be more useful for all.
If I write 1 raws per day, it will take about 6 years. Please to be patient.
Thank you,
Naoki
You're the only one flower in the world. Then you looks like flower not like soil or grass.
Pick bright color clothes. When you buy clothes, it cost same as dark color clothes.
Look youself in the mirror. Do you look like a flower? Is there flower has the color? Do you look & feel happier?
Reflect your happiness to your smile. Force to you to have smile.
When I've done this bright color clothes, many woman smile me. It never happen in my life before. Even I already married, I liked it.
Now you have glossy face, good smile, heaven words, wish of other person's happiness, bright color clothes like a flower. You are almost there.
-Naoki
Word has power. In Japanese we call 言霊 (Kotodama: sprits of word). Word you say reflects your environment and your future.
Heaven words bring you to heaven. Hell words bring you to hell.
Heaven words:
* Lucky
* Happy
* Appriciate
* Thank you
Hell words:
* Moaning, Disaffection
* Complaint
* Curse, Gossip
* Anxiety, Concern
There's system & rule in this world. If you say something good, you will have same good situation you want to say good word again.
If you say some hell word, you can cancel by saying "I'm lucky" 10 times.
So change your word. Your word is your reality.
Hitori Saito did not mention, but I believe heaven word is rich words and hell word is poor words.
If you are feeling lucky, you are happy. And you can care about other people.
Next you wish each person you meet "You will have every good thing". Challenge is 100 per day. But 5 or even 1 is OK.
The key is wishing other person's happiness.
Now you have glossy face, good smile, heaven words, wish of other person's happiness. You are right on track.
-Naoki
It's not lip gloss. It is face gloss.
Hitori Saito told 1st thing you do to be happy is making your face shiny.
All happy successful person have glossy face.
If your face is not glossy, use some oil, such as olive oil or camellia oil.
Then look youself in the mirror. You've got glossy face. Smile. And Keep smilling.
Now you have glossy face and good smile. It is very important.
-Naoki
